So, you are in a relationship for a long time but at the end of the day, you sit back just questioning yourself, “Yaar Shaadi Kab Hogi” actually you should ask yourself “Shaadi Hogi Ki Bhi Nahi? And when you ask about this to your boyfriend, he may avoid you or avoid giving you the right answer. Now you’re stuck with the dilemma of what’s actually going on. Well, face the reality, he will not marry you and these are the signals he’s giving loud and clear.
1. Boys night out
Boys night out
If your guy spends most of the time with his single buddies, then it means that he has already drawn the lifestyle of a single bachelor and fears to get committed.
2. Open relationship
Open relationship
If your guy really loves you he would take all the efforts to make the relationship personal and exclusive. Guys who are not serious, often try to show off their girlfriends may be because she is too beautiful for him.
3. Talks
Talks
When you ask him about his future plans he would rather reply, “Ek Ghar Aur Ek Gaadi Kharidunga”. If his future plans do not include you anywhere, you are blind enough to believe that he will marry you soon. Sad to know, but accept the reality.
4. Interest
Interest
Generally, all men are possessive and they cannot take it when their girlfriends openly interacts or goes too close to someone else. Interested in meeting new girls or strangers are early signs he will not marry you.
5. Talking about future
Talking about future
If for him, planning about future has no sense, it probably means he is not interested in you and will surely not marry you. If he evades talking about the future, it is the time for you to move out of the relationship.
6. He does not ask for your advice
He does not ask your advice
Generally, when a man has a problem, he would love to seek a solution from a strong woman. But if he does not ask you and goes forward to seek other’s advice, he isn’t likely to get into a long-term relationship with a woman whose advice is not appreciated by him.
7. Waiting for the right time
Waiting for the right time
‘Sahi Waqt Ka Intezaar’ is the most important element that you need to check before taking your marriage into consideration. If you are in a long term relationship and still he is waiting for the right time to arrive, he is probably not going to get married to you. He may sound so mature when saying this but this is another stalling tactics.
8. He doesn’t believe in marriage
He doesn’t believe in marriage
If he doesn’t believe in marriage it is a sort of ‘game over’ for you. The person who does not believe in marriage is actually not marriage-phobic but the fact is HE IS NOT READY TO GET MARRIED TO YOU.
9. Fears to commit
Fears to commit
Do you see him behaving differently when asked about marriage? Well, this is an early sign that he isn’t going to marry you.
10. Gets violent often
Gets violet often
When asked about marriage, if he often shows off another side of his personality it is a high time to kick him out of your life. If this often continues, you need to rethink your relationship.
Author: Rima Chowdhury
