To love and be loved is what we need in life. But what if the other person breaks your heart? You breakup. Teary eyed or not, the after breakup period can be extremely painful. During the pain, people have been known to do crazy and sometimes stupid things. Here are 4 things you should just not do after a breakup.
Describing your hurt and pain on Facebook
There is no point in deactivating your account or writing teary-eyed posts on Facebook. Your ex is not going to read them and everybody else will just start poking their nose into things you might want to keep private.
Pretending to be just fine
It is okay to cry. Take it slow and try to get out of the sucky feeling. Partying too much or pretending to be great might start to hurt you emotionally.
Avoiding common friends
So you both had common friends and it’s all uncomfortable now? We get it. But you must know who your real friends are, right? So chill! It’s okay to meet the common friends even if they bring up painful memories or topics.
Abusing your Ex
Most people vent out their anger by abusing their ex infront of friends. Don’t indulge in this as it will only spoil your mood. Your ex is not going to hear your abuses, so why sully your mouth?
Just move on! We know it’s easier said than done, but life has many more things to offer, if you can pull yourself out of the funk.
Author: Aayushi Jain