If men are famous for their ego, women are famous for bitching. Unfortunately it is a reality of life and we need to understand the deep psychological reasons that such a thing happens. Bitching satiates them and makes them feel good. But why? Why should otherwise wonderful people feel the need to be so mean and horrible to others? Here are the underlying reasons.

Jealousy

Jealousy

Jealousy

Most people are jealous of others who they feel are better than them. By bitching about them, women feel like they were able to bring these others down a peg or two.

 

Fear

Fear

Fear

A sense of insecurity and fear always surrounds most women. They are afraid the other person (female or male) will be liked more than them or they are afraid to lose their own position in the social scheme of things.

 

Boosts Their Ego

Boosts Ego

Boosts Ego

It is an unfortunate truth but somehow belittling another person or their achievements makes them feel better about themselves.

 

Hormonal Issues

Hormonal Issues

Hormonal Issues

Women do have changes in their hormones every month. So they tend to get irritable and snappy. During this phase they tend to be overly critical of everyone around them.

 

Hatred

Hatred

Hatred

Such a strong emotion only stems from other strong emotions. That of extreme insecurity, diminished self worth and low self esteem.

Next time you catch yourself bitching about another person, stop and take stalk of what you are doing and why you are doing it.

 

Author: Aayushi Jain

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