We all go through that phase when we get a crush on a person, but either the time is not right or they don’t seem to be that interested in us so we don’t tell them about our feelings. But we still have to live with the crush and there are some difficulties that come with it.
Sending a simple text becomes a serious project that requires detailed analysis or every word and comma
Think a Ton Before Texting
When in a relationship, you can text any time of the day, but having a crush means stopping yourself every time from texting them.
You feel miserable that they will not be around when you will want them to be , the most
You Cannot Trust Them to Be With You
Yeah they haven’t called you their mate or even girlfriend or even friend at times. So you cannot impose on them to do the things that a boyfriend is supposed to do. You want to reach out to them in a moment of weakness but you cannot.
You are beginning to feel like a demented stalker
Seeing their Profile Seems Like Stalking
For one you spend an inappropriate amount of time going through his profile, sighing and dreaming. Then when you Like a picture of his that was updated by his two years ago, it’s a nightmare. You now have to think up why you were scrolling that far back.
Waiting for a ridiculous amount of time for their replies to messages and then getting angry when they don’t reply
Waiting for Hours for them to Reply
First you wait for the reply, and you wait and wait, and wait some more. Then you get really angry with the other person and go through a who need them, period and then you start worrying. What-if they were in an accident, should you call to find out. hat if they weren’t, then they’d think you’re needy. OMG!
Knowing they don’t feel the same way about you
Knowing they Don’t Like You
Either because they are already in a relationship and never cease with the PDA. Or because they are asking you about your best friend. Or because they say something like, ‘you’re not my type’. Or because they simply don’t give you any baav (importance) what-so-ever.
The cherry on top is when you get friendzoned
They Getting Committed
They say they love you but like a friend. They share everything with you. You can read their mind and their needs. You know what they like, and what they dislike. Every time they have a fight with their significant other they come to you and say, “I should just marry you!” They never realise how much they are hurting you and you can’t even blame them.
An unrequited love or crush really wrenches the heart and soul.
