In India, marrying someone without having your kundlis matched first or getting a prior ‘go ahead’ from the priest is a big ‘no-no’. People rely on astrology and horoscope too much for their own good and sometimes it just leads to trouble. People put compatibility on the back seat while kundlis on the front. So, to open your eyes here are a few ways of how kundlis can destroy relationships.
Astrology is just a ‘probability’
Create your own future
Astrology or kundlis is nothing more than a probability. You can never be certain of what might happen in the future, it’s your belief that matters. If you think that you can make it work, then no one in the world can stop you.
It’s not the stars but love and compatibility that matters
Compatibility is most important
If you have ever been to a priest regarding kundli, then you would know what I mean. They say your stars are not aligned or they do not match or in some cases, you or your partner might even be having some ‘dosh’. But the truth is in life it’s not the stars that matter, its love and compatibility that only matters.
Never follow anything blindly
Don’t give up on love
Many a time couples have been separated after year’s long relationship just because their priest said so. Remember you can’t give up on love just because a piece of paper said that you aren’t compatible.
Don’t fall victim to frauds
Don’t let them fool you
Yes! There are many priests who do not hesitate in fabricating lies. They will tell you to do different ‘pujas’ or will play with your insecurities, just so that they can get more money out of you.
Take examples of people living abroad
If there is love, there is happiness
If there is still some doubt in your mind, then here is another pointer for you. People living abroad don’t believe in such rituals and yet their marriages are successful, just like millions of other couples (so, think about it).
Author’s Name – Tushar Nayyar
