Flirting is an art, a specialized skill that not everyone possesses. It takes a lot of time and careful observation to come up with the successful flirting techniques. But in the age of technology flirting has shifted from face to face to text and messages and if you are not the ‘Don Juan’ of this field, then here are a few tips on how to flirt with a girl over text.
Be unpredictable
Listen to her, she is right
The only thing predictable, should be your unpredictability. Don’t go with the boring ‘How was your day’ routine, try to be unique and creative, write something that starts a conversation rather than she giving you some one word answer like, ‘Good’.
Get personal
Me and you against the world
It really helps with the flirting if the conversation starts getting personal. Now, I don’t mean you go all the way, but start with the little things. Try to use her name in the texts along with words like “we” and “us”, as it creates a sense of intimacy.
Tease her a little
The best pick up line ever!
Teasing is a very successful flirting technique, it shows your fun side and also keeps the conversation mood light and funny. But remember, not to cross the line between teasing and being mean.
Compliment Her
I think that’s the world best compliment
Who doesn’t love a good compliment? But you should be careful with what you say. Don’t use words like “hottie” as girls can find this offensive and in an instant you will be termed as a “creepy pervert”.
Don’t over text her
Too much is creepy
This is one of the important thing as you don’t want to look needy. If a girl hasn’t texted you back, then wait. Sending her a hundred text without her replying won’t leave a good impression.
Build a little anticipation
There is always more to expect
You have to be careful with this one, as this can either take you to the next level or ruin your whole game. Text her with something playful and fun or deliberately misinterpret her text to something sexual. But remember not to overdo it.
Author’s Name – Tushar Nayyar
