So you’re heartbroken, your partner said adieu to you, and left you wondering why it happened? Why did she dump you, or why did he turn his back on you? We don’t realise it but sometimes we cause our own broken hearts. Here are some reasons why your partner may have left you.
- You don’t listen to you partner
That’s why it ended
You love to listen to the sound of your own voice. Who doesn’t? Ever think that your partner might have some contribution to make to a discussion or a decision that impacts both of you?
- When you get influenced by others
How dare you?
No doubt your friends care about you, but it doesn’t mean you start questioning or arguing with your partner. If you listen to other people often and let their opinions matter too much, then it might be the reason you’re dumped.
- If you involve your family in every matter
Stupid deed
If you have a good habit of involving your family in every matter that should be between you and your partner, then it could be the core reason for your breakup.
- When you force your style of living to your partner
Let me go
Tell me is it compulsory, that if you drink then your girlfriend/boyfriend should also join you? You both have your own likes and dislikes before you met. Then why a forceful behavior now? Ask yourself honestly, whether you had ever forced your likes onto your partner, knowing that they didn’t like doing that thing so much.
- When your relationship turns into a prison sentence
I can’t handle it
So if you treat your partner like a prisoner, then it shouldn’t surprise you that they left. Just because they were in a relationship with you didn’t meant hat they stopped being themselves or didn’t have a life of their own.
- If you’re egoistic
But sadly you love your ego
If you can’t bend and always want to be the one up in the relationship, irrespective of whether you’re wrong or right, then there really is no point to be in a relationship. Relationships work with cooperation, love and understanding, no place for ego in it.
If you flow in the wind of freedom I don’t care about you
Individuality in a relationship is a good thing. If you always wanted to do everything alone or without your partner then you weren’t in a relationship at all. If you like the feeling of freedom and never having to consult with anyone else, then it’s a good thing you’re no longer in a relationship.
Author’s Name: Pranay Gautam
